
Receiving financial assistance from parents to help with a mortgage down payment is increasingly common, especially in today’s competitive real estate market. But whether this money is considered a gift, a loan, or part of a trust arrangement can have significant legal implications. Misunderstanding the nature of the transaction could lead to disputes, tax issues, or complications with lenders.
If you’ve received $50K from your mom for a down payment, the key question becomes: What is the legal nature of this financial assistance?
Key Takeaways: Protect Yourself and Your Parents
- Clarity Is Key: Clearly define the nature of the financial assistance. Is it a gift, a loan, or a trust? Verbal agreements are insufficient; documentation is essential.
- Independent Legal Advice: Parents should seek independent legal advice before transferring significant funds. This ensures they understand the implications and avoids claims of undue influence.
- Proper Documentation: Use written agreements or gift letters to confirm the intentions behind the transfer. Ensure the documents are unambiguous and signed with the proper witnesses (not the recipient).
- Lender Transparency: Be upfront with your bank about the nature of the funds to avoid complications during the mortgage process.
- Avoid Undue Influence: Parents should not feel pressured into signing documents, as courts may later invalidate such agreements if undue influence is proven.
Gift, Loan, or Trust: What’s the Difference?
Gift
A gift is a transfer of money or property made voluntarily without expecting anything in return. To qualify as a gift in the legal sense:
- Clear Intentions: The parent must explicitly and unambiguously intend to make a gift with no repayment obligations.
- Proper Documentation: Written evidence (e.g., a gift letter) stating the funds are a gift can help avoid future disputes.
- Capacity and Independence: The parent must fully understand the nature and consequences of the gift. Independent legal advice is strongly recommended to ensure the gift cannot be challenged later as coerced or influenced.
If these conditions are not met, courts may presume that the funds were not intended as a gift, even if both parties believed they understood the arrangement.
For additional guidance on how the Canada Revenue Agency (CRA) treats gifts, refer to their guidelines on gifts and income tax.
Loan
A loan implies that the money must be repaid under certain terms. Loans can be informal or formalized in writing with clear terms, including repayment schedules, interest rates, and deadlines.
- When It’s a Loan: If the parent expects repayment, even if informally agreed upon, it’s considered a loan.
- Risk of Misunderstanding: Without proper documentation, disputes can arise. The parent may later claim repayment was expected, while the child assumed otherwise.
- Impact on Mortgages: If you need a mortgage, lenders will inquire whether the money is a gift or a loan. Misrepresenting the nature of the funds (e.g., stating it’s a gift when it’s a loan) can lead to significant legal and financial consequences.
To learn more about the tax treatment of loans versus gifts, visit the CRA’s guidelines on inherited or gifted property.
Resulting Trust
A resulting trust occurs when there is an implicit understanding—or a legal presumption—that the recipient (the child) holds the property or funds for the benefit of the giver (the parent).
- Presumption of Resulting Trust: In Canada, courts generally presume that a significant transfer of funds between a parent and an adult child is not a gift but rather a trust, unless there is clear evidence to the contrary.
- Why It Matters: If a parent later claims they retain an ownership interest in the property, the court may agree, even if the child believed the money was a gift.
- Avoiding a Resulting Trust: Proper documentation and independent legal advice can help clarify the parent’s intentions and prevent the application of this presumption.
Complications With Lenders

Mortgage lenders often require transparency regarding the source of down payment funds. If your parent provides financial assistance, lenders may ask for a “gift letter” confirming that the money is a gift and not a loan.
The Problem:
What if your parent needs the money back but signs the gift letter anyway to help you qualify for a mortgage?
The Risks:
- Misrepresentation: Falsely claiming the money is a gift when it’s actually a loan could lead to legal and financial consequences.
- Strained Relationships: If repayment expectations are not clearly documented, it can lead to family disputes.
- Mortgage Denial: If the bank discovers discrepancies, your mortgage approval could be revoked.
Solution: Always be honest with your lender. If you’re in a situation where the money is a loan but the bank requires a gift letter, consult a real estate lawyer to explore options and ensure compliance with the law.
For more details on how lenders handle gifts and loans, see Ontario’s land transfer tax information or for a in depth guide our First Time Buyers Guide to Land Transfer Tax, Rebates, and Exemptions.
Special Case: When the Recipient Is Under 18

Interestingly, the law presumes that financial assistance to a minor (someone under 18) is a gift, not a loan or a resulting trust. This differs significantly from the presumption applied to adult children. However, even in these cases, proper documentation is critical to avoid future disputes.
When in Doubt, Seek Legal Advice
The nuances of gifts, loans, and trusts in real estate transactions can be complex. Misunderstanding these distinctions can lead to costly disputes, legal battles, or even the loss of property rights. If you’re unsure about how to proceed—or if you’re already facing complications—consult a real estate lawyer to ensure your interests are protected.
Contact us today to discuss your specific situation and find the best path forward. Our expertise can help you navigate the legal landscape and safeguard your financial future.
Ready To Hire A Lawyer? Contact Jay Today!Disclaimer: This article addresses general real property issues and does not cover family law or limitations-related considerations. Always seek legal advice for your unique circumstances.